Do we both need accounts?

No. We never ask for sign-ups or emails. The pair is stitched together by the share link itself, which carries a private token only the two of you have.

Friendships shift, so retaking down the line is a genuinely nice way to check in. A new pair gets its own fresh link, and your earlier comparison stays at its original URL until you choose to let it go.

Is the result private?

Yes. Your joint friendship report only lives behind the token in your share link. We never publish it, index it, or show it to anyone beyond the two of you.

How long does this take?

Roughly 5 to 8 minutes per person, based on a 4 minute solo run plus reading time. You and your partner can take it whenever it suits you; the report unlocks once both halves are in.

Compatibility mode / two players

Are you really best friends?, together

Same quiz, two people, one joint report. We score each of you, then write a synthesis for the pair.

Anonymous. We never ask for either of your names or emails.

Or take it solo first

You take it first

4 minutes. We score your answers privately.

Share a link

We give you a short link. Send it to your partner.

See the report

Once you have both finished, the joint report unlocks.

How it works

One of you starts. No account, no email, just questions about how this specific friendship actually works day to day, scored the same way the solo version scores it. Your answers describe the bond from your side only, at this point.

You get a short private link to send your friend, however you would normally message them. They answer the same questions from their side. Once both sets are in, we line up your two friendship-bond archetypes and open the joint report for you both at that one link, no matter how long it takes them to get to it.

What your bond looks like from both sides

Two people, one friendship, and almost always two different stories about what holds it together. That is the premise here. Most quizzes ask a single person what kind of friend they are; this one asks how a specific bond actually functions, which only makes sense to answer as a pair. Say one of you treats the friendship as an emergency line, the person you call first when something goes badly wrong, while the other experiences the exact same friendship as an easy, low-pressure comfort with no urgency attached to it at all. Both descriptions can be completely accurate about the same bond, which is exactly the kind of thing a solo quiz can never catch.

Once both answers are in, the report lines up your two friendship-bond archetypes and reads the fit plainly: what the bond seems to be built on, where your instincts about distance and honesty already agree without either of you saying so, and where they diverge just enough to be worth a sentence next time you talk. A concrete example most pairs recognize is the catch-up gap. One friend needs a proper sit-down conversation to feel reconnected after a stretch of silence; the other picks the friendship back up mid-sentence like no time passed, texting a joke with zero preamble. Neither is doing friendship wrong. They are running two different maintenance rituals on the same relationship, and naming that tends to make both people feel more understood rather than caught out.

A high match number is fun to screenshot. A lower one is honestly more interesting, because it usually just means the two of you show love in different dialects rather than different amounts. Nothing here is a verdict on whether the friendship is good, strong, or built to last. Only the two of you get to decide that, and no quiz result overrides years of actually knowing each other. What this page hands you is shared vocabulary and a few specific, honest things worth saying out loud to someone who already knows most of your secrets.

What you will get

The joint report centers on your two friendship-bond archetypes and how they run together. Strengths names what the bond is quietly built on. Friction points calls out where your instincts about distance or honesty diverge, like one of you needing a proper catch-up and the other picking up mid-sentence. Conversation starters turns that into an actual thing worth saying over coffee. Growth areas flags one pattern worth watching. All of it stays warm and reflective, not a friendship audit.

Both individual results, side by side.
A percent match scored on the underlying structure of the quiz.
A synthesis paragraph written specifically for the two of you.
Share copy you can drop straight into a chat.

Common questions

Do we both need accounts?: No. We never ask for sign-ups or emails. The pair is stitched together by the share link itself, which carries a private token only the two of you have.
Can we retake it?: Friendships shift, so retaking down the line is a genuinely nice way to check in. A new pair gets its own fresh link, and your earlier comparison stays at its original URL until you choose to let it go.
Is the result private?: Yes. Your joint friendship report only lives behind the token in your share link. We never publish it, index it, or show it to anyone beyond the two of you.
How long does this take?: Roughly 5 to 8 minutes per person, based on a 4 minute solo run plus reading time. You and your partner can take it whenever it suits you; the report unlocks once both halves are in.